Unpopular Things I’m Doing This Round of Pregnancy.

My Unconventional Pregnancy Choices

Fourth times the charm, so it’s about time I share the less conventional choices I’ve made during this round of pregnancy. There’s a beauty in doing things a bit differently, and I’m LIVING for it! Being a mom of four I’ve realized the things that are important and the things that just feel like background noise.

We Are Waiting Until Birth to Find Out the Baby’s Gender, Say What?

After a hearty debate (where I obviously came out on top 😂), we’ve decided not to find out the gender of our new addition until the moment they arrive. Sounds wild, right? Shopping and decorating without a specific theme has been a challenge, but embracing this mystery has been incredibly fun and fulfilling. There’s also no greater surprise in life- it can’t go wrong either way. To all the expectant parents out there, have you ever considered waiting for the big reveal? How would you handle all the curiosity and excitement?

My Diet My Way or Whatever McDonalds Said…

Now onto a little confession—my pregnancy diet, which includes some traditionally frowned-upon choices. Yes, I’m talking about enjoying hotdogs at the ballpark and not shying away from a deli sandwich when the craving hits (Insert collective gasp here). Rest assured I’ve discussed these cravings with my doctor, and with a green light for moderation and safety precautions, I’ve been able to love these treats without the added stress. Because Lordy, that first pregnancy I avoided it all and the stress levels just trying to determine what I could and couldn’t eat…endless.

This relaxed approach has really helped maintain my sanity and keep the peace at home (because let’s be honest, nobody wants to deal with a hangry pregnant mom). It’s all about balancing safety and satisfaction. What is something you were told no to eating but were craving in your pregnancy? LET ME KNOW. Tell me I’m not alone here 🫣.

Embracing Individuality in Pregnancy

Every pregnancy is as diverse as the person experiencing it. This time around, I’ve fully embraced that there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to pregnancy. Whether it’s skipping the traditional gender reveal or munching on “forbidden fruits,” it’s SOO crucial to do what feels right for you. This philosophy has not only made my pregnancy more enjoyable but also way more aligned to myself overall. I encourage all moms-to-be to carve out their own path, one that’s free from judgment and rich with support. How do you navigate making choices that might be different from the norm? Do you overthink or embrace it?

My Past Pregnancy Nightmares

Remembering my first pregnancy, everyone had an opinion.

Everyone and their aunt Susan had comments on baby names to neighbors suggesting the best stroller, it felt like my pregnancy was a community event! This time, I’m taking a laid-back approach. I’m focusing less on pleasing others and more on what feels right for me and my family. The rest is simply background noise and you should let all those little things fall back too. It’s empowering and relieving to state your own needs and preferences during this chaotic ass time.

This pregnancy has taught me the importance of trusting my instincts and making decisions that align with my personal values and needs. It feels refreshing to step away from conventional expectations and take control of your own path. As I near the close of our baby having chapter, I’m focused on making the most of every moment—celebrating the little things, creating lasting memories, and truly living according to my own rules.

So mark those growing heights on the wall, make clay foot prints, schedule the family photos, and most importantly make choices that truly align with who you are.

Don’t forget to join us on our socials for the big gender reveal coming up this summer! We can’t wait to share that BEAUTIFUL moment with y’all!

Much love, from one mama to another, navigating the trenches of motherhood.